How To Build a Mental Health Emergency Plan

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Mental health emergency plan

Imagine this:

Your heart is racing. Your mind is spiraling. You feel panic creeping in, or depression hits so hard you can barely breathe. You try to reach someone — anyone — but no one answers. You wish you had something… a plan… a guide… instructions on what to do when your brain is on fire.

Most people have emergency plans for earthquakes, fires, or illness.

But almost no one has a Mental Health Emergency Plan — until they desperately need one.

This article will teach you how to create a personalized and actionable plan that supports you through panic attacks, depressive episodes, emotional breakdowns, trauma triggers, suicidal ideation, and other crises.

If you’re reading this, you’re not alone — and you’re taking a powerful step toward protecting your future self.

 What Is a Mental Health Emergency Plan?

A mental health emergency plan is a written guide that outlines:

Think of it as a roadmap for your worst days — created by the version of you who is clear, calmer, and thinking logically.

Just like first aid saves lives in physical emergencies, a mental health emergency plan helps prevent emotional crises from escalating.

 Why Everyone Needs a Mental Health Emergency Plan

You may be mentally strong, stable, or emotionally self-aware — but mental health can change quickly due to:

Without a plan, it's easy to panic or shut down when emotions overwhelm you.

With a plan, you’re prepared.

It gives you clarity when your brain cannot think clearly.

 Who Should Have One?

This plan is crucial if you:

  • Live alone

  • Experience anxiety, trauma, depression, or panic attacks

  • Are going through major life stress

  • Are in therapy or taking mental health medication

  • Are supporting someone with mental health challenges

Even if you’ve never struggled with mental health, you still benefit.

Because emergencies don’t schedule themselves.

 Step-by-Step Guide: How to Build Your Mental Health Emergency Plan

Below, you’ll create yours — piece by piece.

You can download and print these steps later, but for now, let’s walk through the process.

 Step 1: Identify Your Warning Signs

(Listen to your body — it whispers before it screams.)

Most mental health spirals start with subtle emotional or physical signs like:

Emotional Signs Physical Signs
Feeling numb, hopeless, overwhelmed Racing heart, headaches, stomach pain
Loss of interest in things you enjoy Trouble sleeping or oversleeping
Sudden irritability or anger Changes in appetite
Urge to isolate or withdraw Shaking, sweating

Write down your personal early warning signs:

Example:

  • I stop answering texts.

  • I sleep more than 10 hours.

  • I lose appetite and stop showering.

Awareness = prevention.

 Step 2: List Your Top 3 Emotional Triggers

Triggers aren’t weaknesses — they're unprocessed emotional wounds.

Common triggers include:

  • Conflict or shouting

  • Being ignored or rejected

  • Feeling overwhelmed with tasks

  • Criticism or failure

  • Financial stress

Write yours down.

Example:
“My biggest trigger is conflict or feeling like I disappointed someone.”

Once identified, you can avoid or better manage triggers.

 Step 3: Create Your Crisis Toolkit

(What helps you regulate your nervous system?)

List 10 coping tools that help you:

 Helpful self-soothing activities:

Include what works for YOU, not what the internet says should work.

Example:
“When anxious, I listen to ocean sounds and hold a cold ice pack.”

 Step 4: Build Your Emergency Contact List

(Connections save lives.)

Include:

Contact Type Who to Include
Primary contact A partner, best friend, or family member
Secondary contact Friend, coworker, neighbor
Professional support Therapist, counselor, psychiatrist
Crisis lines (local + international) Suicide hotline, emergency services

Write these with:

  • Names

  • Phone numbers

  • When it’s safe to call

Example:
 Name: Sarah (Best friend)
 Number: +44 xxx xxx xxx
 When to call: When I text “I need help.”

 Step 5: Define Your Action Plan for Different Crises

Use this structure:

If I feel anxious → I will:

  1. Do 10 minutes of deep breathing

  2. Go outside or open a window

  3. Text my support contact

If I feel depressed → I will:

  1. Shower

  2. Eat something nourishing

  3. Go to a public space if I feel unsafe alone

If I experience panic → I will:

  1. Splash cold water on my face

  2. Use grounding technique

  3. Call my crisis support person

Write yours clearly.

 Step 6: Create a "Words to Repeat to Myself" Section

(Because our inner voice can calm or destroy us.)

Examples:

  • “I have survived 100% of my worst days.”

  • “This feeling is temporary.”

  • “I am safe.”

  • “I am not alone.”

 Step 7: Create a "Reasons to Stay" List

This is extremely powerful for moments of hopelessness.

Write:

  • People you love

  • Dreams you haven’t lived yet

  • Things that matter to you

Example:
“I stay because I want to see my younger sibling grow up.”

 Step 8: Share Your Plan With Someone You Trust

Healing happens in connection.

Give a copy to someone who can:

  • Show up for you

  • Hold space

  • Support you without judgment

 Step 9: Keep It Visible

Place your plan:

  • On your phone notes app

  • In your journal

  • On your wall

  • In your wallet

A plan is useless if it’s not accessible.

 Additional Safety Resources

Worldwide Crisis Hotlines

Region Hotline
USA/Canada 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
UK & Ireland Samaritans: 116 123
Kenya Befrienders Kenya Hotline +254 722 178 177
International https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/

 Save numbers in your phone under "Emergency Support."

 Mistakes People Make When Building Their Plan

 “I’ll remember what to do. I don’t need to write it down.”
 In a crisis, logical thinking shuts down. You need written instructions.

 “I don’t want to burden anyone.”
 Humans are wired to connect. You are not a burden.

 “I only need coping tools.”
 You need connection, tools, and instructions.

 Why This Matters

Mental health emergencies don’t look like physical ones.

They look like:

A mental health emergency plan saves lives — including your own.

You are not weak for struggling.

You are not dramatic for needing support.

You are not a burden for asking for help.

Having a mental health emergency plan is not admitting defeat.

It is choosing to protect the version of you who might not have the strength to fight someday.

Your future self will thank you.

If this article helped you, share it — someone you love might be suffering silently.

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Your mental health matters.
Your safety matters.
You matter.


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